Author: livedefy

How You Doing?

I just want to write a post about where I am mentally. I missed a week of blogging and I haven’t been posting on my normal days. I also up and changed the name of my blog without explanation, so I will explain that here.

Beat Average

“I’m going to get married at 21 and have kids by 23 so when my kids get older I won’t be old” This was my 13 year old plan because one of my friends had older parents and they never wanted to take us anywhere. In my 13 year mind, this meant they lacked energy […]

Unexpected​ Love

2017 was the summer of all summers for me. I went to Barbados for the first time and came back like feeling like Stella in How Stella Got Her Groove Back. I stayed in a hotel apartment with a patio overlooking the beach. I sat out there a few times and listened to the sound […]

Summer of Summers

At this moment I am on vacation in Barbados with my boyfriend. It feels surreal since we spend so much time on the phone. It’s like we can give each other real kisses and not fake kisses over the phone. We have been in a long distance relationship for two years. For a while, I […]

My Quick Trip to Toronto

I like to take pictures. It brings me joy to take snaps of my family and friends. I enjoy taking pictures of things I find interesting and places I have been to. But when it comes to me being in front of the camera, I feel really shy. Seriously, how am I suppose to pose? […]